I think it might be safe (and controversial) for me to say this, but...
Get your head in the game already, people don't like PvP.
People like short sessions, people like slaying skellies, and some people like good social interactions that don't involve having to deal with the game's shoddy PvP combat system. I wish this were otherwise, but that's why Blazing Sails exists, why other games like CS:GO exist, and even free ones like Splitgate exist. These are games that were designed for "Quick PvP Sessions" unlike Sea of Thieves, which failed at the concept because the devs wanted to stick true to the game's ACTUAL environment of using your ship's cannons, getting roughed around by the environment, and letting chaos decide the fate of a battle. None this ship-less gunning each other down.
Realize that, and I think you can make your final decision on whether or not you should continue playing this game. Many other Arena players have either left, stayed secluded with NAL 1v1s, or are chasing PvE grinding Reapers across the map till they hit the Devil's Shroud.