@stainiak said:
But griefing everyone else is acceptable.
If your view of griefing is broad enough to include spawncamping a ship after I am being shot at, then yes. I'm not sure what else you're including in there, so I can't really answer that. I was referring to griefing in this game as Rare sees it.
If I'm navaling and I decide to attack an opposing ship by spawncamping, am I still griefing?
What I don't get with all this is the notion that TDMers should be 'left alone' and if they're not, the only available action is to spawncamp the ship... I must have missed the part where it was decided upon high that this is the ONLY way of dealing with that situation. "It's not my fault I was toxic, they shot at my ship"
I was not defending toxic behavior at all. I will defend spawncamping after being shot at. But you're conflating toxicity with spawncamping.
Nor am I arguing that TDMers should be left alone. But this is something that you and others in this thread seem to keep bringing up.
I've read comparisons to alliance servers and PvE servers. I've read that we're just complaining about people interfering in the TDM, or asking for protections or a TDM game mode.
I've said multiple times in this thread and I'll say again: I don't mind if you interfere. I don't mind camping. I will ask you to leave me alone, though I cannot force you to. I will not decide for you. You pick. If you choose to leave us alone, then great! Thanks! If not, then great! Come get camped.
What's unfortunate is, as the OP points out, now we can't even communicate our intentions to the other crews.
Here's another way of dealing with the same scenario.... accept that the whole lobby doesn't actually want to engage in TDM this time and play the game as intended. You already said that you'd leave a lobby if it looked like you weren't going to get a TDM one.
No, what I said was that I'd leave a lobby if I had no one to TDM with. Not that I'd leave if the entire lobby isn't TDMing.
Even if I have 1 ship to TDM with, I'm staying in that lobby. Most of the time, depending on how many friends are interested, we might keep re-queuing lobbies until we have 3 ships.
If 3 or 4 out of 5 ships in a lobby want to TDM, who is really speaking for "the whole lobby"? And if there are only 2 ships TDMing, is this really "ruining the experience" for the 3 other ships, as some of you claim?