Why multi-crew activities CAN work given some patience

So I see a lot of people complaining about multi crew activities, how it's tough finding crews that don't want to sink you for the giggles. Some days I log on and the server is baron or full of trolls. But I think that's a bit down to my laziness (I can't be bothered to server hop). Anyway, tonight I jump on SoT with the Mrs, I work away during the week so we use games like this to socialise and chat rather than sat glued to our phones. We have had some small luck finding a friendly/semi friendly crew to chip away at some thrones over the last few days, but this evening, at one stage including our selves there was 7 people from 4 crews, sailing 2 ships! We just kept picking people up on the way to Marauder's Arch. It was epic! We even took down a Galleon with extreme violence who got a bit too curious for our liking. Snook a crew on board while the others distracted with the ships. So yeah we were a bunch of strangers kind of ushered to play SoT together, but if every game session on SoT was this much fun, i'm NinjaNevo3112 pleased to meet you.