I play with my kids. Granted, they are MY kids so I have a bit of control in the situation. They do get annoying, they have really taken to the grog (I am seriously worried about their college years), ringing the bell and so on. But guess what...at the end of the day, they found treasure, fended off attacking crews, and ...well...made me laugh the whole time. maybe take the time to try to include a kid, give the kid that joins your crew something to do, something to be responsible for. "Hey rugrat, point the main sail into the wind for me, thanks good job". You'd be surprised, if they get treated like an important part of the crew, they just may start acting like an important part of the crew. Thats just my two cents, and yes, there are some little panty wastes out there they simply need to be brig'd. I get it, and I don't disagree. just sayin'...try another approach, you may be pleasantly surprised with the results!