Questions about the CoC

  • I have some questions about the Code of Conduct.

    Be respectful
    Sea of Thieves is a game for everyone regardless of age, gender, race, sexuality, nationality, creed or disability. Treat everyone with respect. Diversity only enriches this larger-than-life pirate community of ours and makes Sea of Thieves’ world a far more interesting one to explore. When we all play, everyone wins.

    Is spawnkilling over and over for the sake of it and telling others they are bad or sh... noobs respectfull?
    Many here accept this as a norm of online gaming and tell us to harden up and be no snowflakes.

    Be welcoming to new players.
    We were all new pirates once, so pay it back by welcoming first-time players or those still learning the ropes. It’ll set them an example of how to behave and make them want to return, weaving their own stories into the lore of Sea of Thieves. You may even make some steadfast new crewmates.

    How does anyone know it's a new player?
    Or does it mean if you see someone struggling, you should stay playfull and have some sympathy or empathy for less skilled / experienced players?
    How do you deal with players who openly state they want others quit their session and dont care that they rage, but vice versa want them to rage?

    Be a good sport.
    Sea of Thieves is a pirate game, and stealth, stealing and battles are all part of the fun. All pirates on the seas accept that, but be a good sportsman in both victory and loss.

    Is exploiting good sports?
    You have streamers in the Partner Programm that exploit and recommend to do so.
    A lot of players say this is skillfull play and a norm for online gaming.

    Be courteous.
    Don’t insult players you don’t know. If humour is the intent, remember that this can be lost or misinterpreted online, and words can very easily offend. Be mindful of what you’re saying and if someone asks a question, see if you can help them out as you’d appreciate being helped out yourself if the roles were reversed.

    Does that mean you dont accept any form of insults?
    Imho the usual practice of: "git gud noob it's a pirate game, not Sea of Friends, you are trash" is allready insulting.
    Think of teens, who get these responses, and think of this is not only in the forums, but also ingame one of the most and generous "answers" or accusations people get.

    Keep it appropriate.
    Avoid swearing in unfamiliar company where possible. Don’t post anything containing NSFW material – this has no place in Sea of Thieves or its community spaces. And while we all have opinions of the world around us, people aren’t necessarily playing Sea of Thieves to talk about politics or contentious real-world issues. Switch off, escape and enjoy the freedom of the seas instead.

    Remember kids are playing. Sea of Thieves is home to players of all ages, so keep your posts and conversations appropriate for younger players and families.

    Hm, i see some streamers make joke about kids and less skilled players.
    They do jokes about their voice and lack of skill and use them to make themself look better and them look like idiots, bad players who know nothing etc...
    Isn't that a violation of the code?
    Also regarding the point about new players?

    REMEMBER:
    Sea of Thieves is a game. Games are meant to be fun. If you become angry or frustrated, take a break. Don’t be rash and act out your anger in a way that could ruin the experience for others and lead to a report being filed against you.

    What about people who are very good at the game knowing they trigger others with their behavior and dominance to get sour, because they feel cheated.
    Many skilled players say the skill is also to use all exploits and such.
    So new players, more casual players or just players playing without any clue about exploits feel cheated and having an unfair experience and therefore become desperated or even sour losers.
    What about players who trigger that extra, do videos about it and share it?
    It's this ok with the code?

    I ask because atm i'm completely confused.
    In the 2 threads of Botswains and Deckhands a lot of players agree and in the same time others say the things i mentioned above and state this is normal and the way it is in online games.

    I ask to get clarification.
    If all these things are ok and within the code, i wont ever say anything about it.
    To me this all feels a little hippocritical or we seriously need to react to all this in an appropriate way and disallow people who do so to play further.
    Or not?
    Thank you.

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  • @bugaboo-bill

    So the problem with most rules that promote "civility" is that they are pretty hypocritical already. Like Joe Neate saying that they want "everyone" to feel welcome to play Sea of Thieves. We all know that the community will not welcome "everyone", they will welcome who they believe are deserving to be welcome. Same thing with civility or the belief of it.

    The rules are there to act as a guidelines.

    Example the streamer, he starts mocking the players he is attacking. Teens whose voices are still high pitched and he mocks them by making his voice high pitched also. This might seem excessive but is it really? I don't believe it is, others don't as well. There are some that do and some that believe this is a complete outrage.

    There is no black or white line. There is a lot of grey and when a lot of grey is involved there is a lot of ambiguity. Sometimes the best solution is just to tell the person to grow thicker skin, build a bridge, and get over it. Just because players are acting like douches doesn't mean we need to take a hard stance against it. Players can take things too far but usually when that happens the whole community is in agreement and it usually always involves children.

    Teen, young adults, are not children.

    Lets take the spawn camping as an example.

    We all know that the spawn camping is completely in the control of the player being spawn camped. If you don't want to spawn camped then you can't be. AT ALL. The victim has all the power in the world, however some argue against this because they believe "I don't want to give them the satisfaction." or "I shouldn't have to scuttle, they should just leave me alone."

    In a sense the only issue with scuttling is the players unwillingness to be made to feel "shame". Thats all it is. They believe the act to be shameful. Purely that. I've been spawn camped and once I realized I couldn't get out, I scuttled.

    I was in Arena one match and my crew and I got stuck. We were being spawn camped by 2 ships and couldn't get out of the mess. Our ship was completely disabled so if we actually killed everyone we didn't have enough time to get all the sails back up before we got shot on again and 2 ships trying to board. So we scuttled, got out of the situation, came back and took out both ships.

    All in all, the real question isn't "Are you going to enforce your rules Rare!" its more of are the players going to finally grow up and not let little things get to them because thats all they are, little things.

    There are times when things get taken too far, but this always involves children and if there are no children involved, I'd say lets force the players to have to make decisions for themselves.

    Don't like the player in question? Take a screenshot of his name, find him, mute him, block him.

    Being spawn camped and yelled at? Scuttle and move on, being chased still? Leave the server.

    I'm one for if the player has the ability to not listen to the words in question, then no need to get Rare involved.

  • @xultanis-dragon

    Then why have it at all if the "guidlines" can be interpret to everyones favor.
    I mean in my local slang some words what are insults for most people are just slang.
    So i maybe start using slang and then say, sorry if someone felt insulted, it's local slang and not meant insulting.

    Shouldnt we maybe better not have any "guidlines"?
    Then we can treat each other like we want and just dont care.
    It's all in our hands.
    We can scuttle, mute, block, heck we can refuse to play and nobody can harm us.

    Edit: when it's just guidlines, why the heckmeck about recent posts by Botswains and Deckhands?

  • @bugaboo-bill

    Need some type of guidelines. If there weren't any guidelines then any protection against children would be null and void or any punishment issued for any act would be hard to enforce because players would argue "Where does it say I can't use that type of language??"

    Its the same reasons Jobs have certain rules or guidelines in place even though they don't practice them, for the sake of ever needing it one day.

    EDIT Example : Sexual harassment laws in the work place. General speaking the sexual harassment laws present would terminate any and all "friendly" type banter in the work place. Anyone who has a job or has looked at sexual harassment rules will notice that the way its worded almost means that any thing said against the opposite gender or even against the same gender can be taken as sexual harassment. Making fun of your co-workers messed up hair cut, harassment. Talk about religion with a female co-worker, harassment.

    If followed to the very letter of the rule, communication of any kind that isn't strictly work related is prohibited. They don't enforce it that way though, they use it as guidelines and to protect the company. Same thing here, its guidelines and in place just case.

    They still enforce it, but they use common sense when enforcing it.

  • @bugaboo-bill

    The code are guidelines to follow, as a player you don't place the final judgement. They are subject to investigation, if you as a player decide they went to far by submitting a report. Once you done that Rare will investigate the complaint and place a judgement. The majority of these phrases are subject to interpretation, so make your judgement and submit your report. Rare will handle it from there.

    Additionally may I add what people say on a stream, but not ingame is their content and subject to the streaming platforms terms and conditions. If you don't like their content, don't watch it...

    This is just getting old... let people play how they play, if you don't like it either avoid them, kill them and deal with it ingame or just report them and let Rare handle their community. Everyone has a different perspective and sensitivity level, if you have an issue with it you are free to report them... yet not everyone will agree or feel offended by your standards and that too is their right. That is why a reporting system is in place and guidelines are created.

  • codes of conduct are intentionally vague as a safeguard against people intentionally coming up so close to the rules that their toes are on the line, all while saying 'but i havent broken the rule!'

    if you want to know how the rules will be be enforced in actual practise, you need to look at the overall tone and any take note of any underlying 'creed', so to speak.

    in the case of rare, the emphasis on 'diversity', 'enrichment', and how you make others feel screams volumes about where rares line is...

  • This is an interesting question and I honestly believe the answer isn't set in stone... I feel like it is upto the rare staff and mods to decide if they think someone broke the code of conduct.. some might be more strict than others...

    With spawn killing... I only do it if the other crew is being toxic, toxic to me is being racist... swearing or just being generally hateful for no reason...

    I feel like no good player would kill newbies... every good player I've met will understand they are new to the game and leave them alone... I often help them out and tell them afew tips which I would of liked to know when I first started...

    about exploiting… I can kinda understand people not wanting to do it.. but lets look at the exploit where you can cut animations short... Using this exploit means you can reload your gun much quicker... Ive found from playing arena so much that, I don't know if others will use this exploit on me but if they do they will kill me faster than I will kill them... I wont take that risk and I will use it... Also everybody can learn the exploits from youtube ect if they really want to.... I think this is down to the devs to fix them or they will always be used..

    About the younger kids and stuff... I've sometimes been playing and I've heard via voice chat that a dad is obviously playing with their kids... I've told my crew this and we let the kid/dad kill us... I've even sunk a ship then realised they were father/kids and xbox messaged them telling them we will give them all their loot back and more! Also when sinking a ship doing a tall take and we got their TT item (before checkpoints) I would always message them telling them we would leave the item on the closest island

    Then you have 14 year olds... who are super good at the game but also very immature.. They will trash talk ect and also understand that... because every online game I've played since the original CS people have trash talked... i'm used to it....In arena after you finish a game and if you look at the position sheet.. you have a pirate chat option to say 'read it and weep' as well as 'we are first' so a lot of people who win will use the 'we are first' then 'read it and weep'.... you can't deny that 'read it and weep' is a form of 'trash talk' but I would consider this as light hearted trash talk which is just human nature....

  • Well you see the pirate code are more of guidelines -catpain Barbosa from pirate of the Caribbean lol

  • Ive spent the last 6 months trying to get my friends to try the game and now that they finally get it we have been constantly spawn killed, and harassed while doing tall tales, how are people suppose to enjoy the game when they first start if all they can do is get killed. They should make a separate server for tall tales or something

  • Rule 1: Don't be a jerk.

    Rule 2: Back off once in a while.

    Rule 3: see rule 1.

    Rule 4: teach someone how to be better, while adhering to rules 1 and 3.

    Rule 5: Have fun without making someone not have fun.

  • @Bugaboo-Bill
    A fantastic post here! And brilliantly worded. I agree with everything you said, especially the being respectful to other players, even partners themselves are seen to never follow this, and these are the people who are supposed to be representing the game for others. Guidelines or not, mannerisms should still be a thing, what some consider "trash talking" can end up being truly hurtful to others, we are all different at the end of the day and you have no idea how the other person would feel during/ after. They want to enjoy the game just as much as you, and it's so easy to get caught up in the moment but some things I've heard are just worrying, and these are supposed to be from reputable people.
    Just hope the community can learn and grow from these things and start enjoying the game together, not hard to have a laugh after a PvP session, no need for the words after. You can't mock somebody with a higher pitch voice then act more immature than they sound.

  • @bugaboo-bill
    We need to take a look at the complete CoC you are referring to: https://www.seaofthieves.com/forum/topic/97111/sea-of-thieves-community-code-of-conduct-forum-rules

    Forget these rules under the section ALWAYS. These are rather suggestions how to get along with each other better and too vague to enforce them.
    Bear in mind that these codes don't even include a threat of consequence for breaking them.
    Though following these rules should put you out of danger to get in conflict with the NEVER rules which make clearer what you really shouldn't do.

    Same for the REMEMBER section, these are pure suggestions to the player who doesn't have bad things in mind but might risk to get himself into trouble for being not cautious enough.

    Now, talking about the NEVER section, I don't like like how these codes are set up because they're imo too vague regarding the consequences although these rules are the only ones that seem to mean something.
    Only the cheat rule mentions bans, all others are just like... am I getting instantly banned for saying a racist slur once? Will there be a warning issued first?
    Is it enough when another player just shows a video and screenshot to the support or will the server log be reviewed as well?

    This is especially a critical aspect because that a no harassment, racism etc. rule really gets enforced here is not what most players are used from other MP games, because basically anything players bring up and that isn't recorded by a 3rd party software will normally not be taken into account in such games (except someone is stupid enough and makes a stream that shows him cheating or deliberately breaking other key rules).

    TL;DR: Only the rules that tell you what you should NEVER do are important in regards of keeping yourself in the game. Any other rule you maybe value, whatever this might be, can only be enforced by an admin of a private server.
    I just find it highly irritating because the ALWAYS and REMEMBER rules are equally part of the official CoC although... well, I explained above.

  • @bugaboo-bill I am strongly against their recent bans, of course im not aware of each case and some of them probably right, but cases like those who spawned camped rocco in my opinion should have just be banned for a week with a last warning.

    I want you all to look at reality dead in the eyes and understand that this whole "protection" is hypocrite and heavily biased.

    "Stick and stones may break my bones but words cant hurt me"

    No one can hurt you and no one can protect you in the internet.

  • @faceyourdemon that phrase has been altered unfortunately

  • No, ok something has to be done actually, Have any of you ever sat in arena lobby without anyone muted at all? People say the most vulgar, if not racist things all the time. It's pretty bad when you have to mute everyone in this game because you have to be worried about them blurting out the n-word or something of a sexual nature. I get it. We were all teens once. But it's not funny, it's very cringe and makes you look even less mature than the kids younger than you who play this game with their parents. The spawn camping is a very easy fix aswell, just add a very small invicibility frame of like a second or so to make people feel safer when they spawn in. It's already gone way past the "Get gud scrub ur trash" banter that you "apparently" see. Yeah ofcourse that's all you see when it's a Streamer playing. No one wants to get banned. But if no one knows it's a streamer it's land of the lawless. Oh and don't tell me to report them. I'm not sitting there reporting an entire lobby by myself. Pay me if you want that to happen. This game has become R-rated by the players. If it keeps up rare is going to have to change it's rating.

  • @silentboops I've run into some pretty bad people in arena but not to the scale that you describe. It's like 1 in 50 lobbies that someone is like this. I'm not saying it's ok to be racist but general trash talk is as long as it isn't offensive. Most people I run into just say I'm a noob or whatever even though I won.

  • @bronzeinquiztor What part of the world are you in though?

  • @silentboops NA why?

  • @bronzeinquiztor Because people act differently depending on the region for istance the EU severs people are a lot chiller about things than NA. And 1/50? For me it's been more like 20/50 lobbies. Meaning about very 4 - 5 lobbies that's what happens.

  • @silentboops I play at odd hours. Most people I play with don't live near me

  • @silentboops said in Questions about the CoC:

    No, ok something has to be done actually

    Oh and don't tell me to report them. I'm not sitting there reporting an entire lobby by myself. Pay me if you want that to happen.

    So something has to be done, but you don't want to help out using the available power at your disposal? Sure.

    What do people want exactly, for Rare to use their budget to hire language police on every server, listening to everyone's conversations and swing the banhammer the moment certain words are said? What has to be done exactly, more than is already possible?

    @bronzeinquiztor said in Questions about the CoC:

    @silentboops I've run into some pretty bad people in arena but not to the scale that you describe. It's like 1 in 50 lobbies that someone is like this. I'm not saying it's ok to be racist but general trash talk is as long as it isn't offensive. Most people I run into just say I'm a noob or whatever even though I won.

    I've also played a lot on NA servers at peak time and never even hear a peep from anybody.

    Not saying it never happens either, but like all allegations of toxicity of all kind, people are quick to say their bad experiences happen every time without a fault. And of course, it's never their job or they never have time to record, report, screenshot or anything... not their job! But "something needs to happen"... We have the tools to report and help the situation, lets use them.

  • @bloodybil Yeah that last part about it not being my job was jabbing at the fact that there should be a mod team to mod all lobbies or something. Someone should be getting paid to keep it out of the game. Either that or a bot or that detects words that shouldn't be allowed than dishes out mutes or something.

  • @bloodybil as I said about 1 in 50 lobbies. I don't even think it's that common. Of course I report it when I hear it or see it though. Im not entirely sure you were even disagreeing with me here tbh.

  • @bugaboo-bill Like many rules these are easy to say and hard to implement and enforce.

    From my view, and I could be off base here. Its seems mostly the code was put up then little to no effort was made beyond that except for the most extreme cases. Plus there is the cringy view many seem to have taken and that is "ARGGG they are more guidelines then actual rules." I disagree with that concept, but there you go.

  • @bronzeinquiztor said in Questions about the CoC:

    @bloodybil as I said about 1 in 50 lobbies. I don't even think it's that common. Of course I report it when I hear it or see it though. Im not entirely sure you were even disagreeing with me here tbh.

    I was agreeing with you mate, first part of my comment was replying to someone else.

  • @silentboops said in Questions about the CoC:

    @bloodybil Yeah that last part about it not being my job was jabbing at the fact that there should be a mod team to mod all lobbies or something. Someone should be getting paid to keep it out of the game. Either that or a bot or that detects words that shouldn't be allowed than dishes out mutes or something.

    Or you can report offenders and move on with your life.

  • Oh yay it's Bill's weekly thread about all the common things people do that he doesn't like!

    Bill you need to get over it. Unless people are hurling slurs and abuse at you and ACTUALLY breaking ToS, they're not doing anything wrong.

    Sandbox game, time for you to learn to share the sandbox. You always have the option to find a new server.

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