A probably oft hated request, but I don't understand why Rare continues to withhold private or PvE servers for those who just want to play without dealing with toxic crews. I've been away for a while and recently returned to the game because some friends were interested in the PvE activies. For the first time since I ever started playing, I was excited to have a full galleon crew that wanted to do the Tall Tales and sail around goofing off. Previously, I've only solo slooped or at best had a second mate for brief stints. While I know there are private servers for streamers, this isn't really a solution as none of my friends want to hunt ancient treasure that's worth less than a barrel with one banana. It's basically just a demo to friends if they can't spend gold on floofy pirate shirts.
Their first experience in the game was being attacked by another crew that made fun of them for being new, goaded as they repeatedly spawn killed them, and justified it as "teaching new players that you deserve to lose if you suck". When I messaged them directly about harassing my friends, the other crew claimed they did it "because they [my friends] looked like boring pirates". This has been their experience with every crew that has approached; pure toxicity. What little interest of theirs that remains is clear that it's only because I want so badly for them to play, and I feel horrible subjecting them to that abuse.
So I now return to being a solo sloop, whose friends think this game isn't worth playing. I'd thought the toxicity would have died down by now, but even as a solo sloop that's just fishing, I've only had a single ship approach that didn't immediately try to fight me out of several dozen encounters. I've been forced to return to my old play style that any ship I can see has to be dealt with because I will be attacked if I stop at an island. Each of those fights has ended in hateful messages and childish insults regardless of who's boat went under. Basically, those encounters aren't... fun.
To head off the common excuse that my friends or I just need to "get gud" if we want to enjoy the game, this is flat out wrong and a horrible defense if it's Rare's actual belief. I've played since launch and hit pirate legends around the time Tall Tales came out. I made my fortune running chickens along the Ancient Isles. I know that even when the sea was shallow in content, it was still fun without PvP. The game now has a plethora of activities and threats that don't involve other crews so the game can absolutely survive without it. If Rare truly believes that the game isn't fun without the threat of attack, turn up the aggression on skeleton ships.
Certain events and factions should absolutely be restricted to public servers only. I'll even admit that one of my favorite experiences I had was teaming up with several other crews to fight Megan back during the Hungering Deep event. The Reaper's Bones, Bilge Rat Adventures, and maybe even Emissaries make sense to leave on public servers as most of their content revolves around dealing with other crews. Rare can enable private servers with progression without removing all incentives for players to choose a public server instead. But that's exactly what it should be, a choice.
