@jusey1z
The fact that you dismiss my experience and knowledge, because I am informing you about my style of pirating and your misconception of 'unavoidable' situations, it is lecturing and lying all in one just because you have a different style that opens you up to these situations?
I never stated that you do not have any skill or that you do no checks at all, yet you state that sneak attacks are unavoidable as a solo player? The notion that sneak attacks are unpreventable is just false, as you can always see them coming if you just build enough awareness and are prepared to leave at a moment notice.
Whether you see them with minutes to spare or seconds, as long as you can get to your ship before they do and drop those sails... you can choose how you want to respond. These things I talk about are not major skills for PvP btw. they are actually more PvE skills or pirating skills based on how you look at it, as it just makes sure that you are in position to choose your response. Fight or flee or hovers around looking for opportunities or strike a truce, while being a little nuisance like me. Just the ability to be in a position that the choice of combat is on you and not with them.
You might be a pro-fighter, but I am a pro-survivor and mainly a RPG player and usually a supportive role in groups. Just as you spent years honing gaming skills so have I, my skills may not be as attuned for combat, even though I am not horrible. My skills allow me to ensure my style of playing and it is highly successful if you have the patience for it.
If we fight one versus one, pirate on pirate it very well might be that you beat me most of the times we battle, as I have encountered enough pirates that do. Yet the ability to sink my ship is a far more challenging part of facing me than disposing of my fleshy body. My ship is sacred, it is what tethers me to the world and is something I am very well versed in keeping afloat. In the end Sea of Thieves combat is not about who can kill better, it is all about who is still floating at the end at least that is how I see it. Also, I have no shame in just taking off and showing my opponents the beautiful rock formations and islands while cruising past them.
The situations where a 'sneak' attack by the others end up in you being helpless and impossible to recover from, while they have full control of your vessel or it just sinking was preventable. That is just simply the truth and if you lost control of your ship before the battle even started, you made a mistake previously be it due to being to immersed in your activity because you just wanted to get this done, it was a challenge or because you were ill prepared / took to much risk.
Even once you engage in battle usually losing control of your ship is because a risk was taken that didn't pan out, a mistake was made and is being punished or the opponent made an amazing move that you were not able to counter the play. Once you choose to engage in battle, things can turn on you fast and a single mistake is all that might be needed. Being off your ship or die at a bad time and the fight might just be over right there and then. Playing solo isn't easy when dealing with other pirates and even those unrecoverable situations which are real, by no means were they unpreventable. Play perfect and your ship will be safe, make a mistake and you might risk it all and lose. The joys of solo play, there is no back-up.
I am one of those pirates that is the PvP treasure trove people hunt for, the pinata of loot. You know that ship that keeps way to much treasure on board and I usually just place it smack next to the ladder or harpoon purely based on where I took it on board and is very visible. I have done dozens of Athena's alone and never actually lost one. Not that I have never lost treasure or had people hunting me, I have lost hauls of 30k+ and even 50k+, as I have done Forts, Fleets, sea creature hunting and voyage chaining.
No pirate appears out of thin air. You might still end up in battle, you might still lose... yet you will not start out helpless with enough awareness and feel for the game. You might be the best killer on the seas... I am an expert when it comes to sailing my sloop and keeping it safe; a survivor.
Btw. I agree with your notion of cursed cannonballs being great and I also use them purely versus players. They can turn the tide in battles if used well.