@pandemonium616
Oh , i do understand , but why can he or she not crossdress for this moment , i know that it is just a bandage on a wound , but , although i know that yer character is very important , the rest of the game is still the same...
i think that many Pirates don't care if a girl Pirate uses a guy Pirate as character or vice versa...i think your Friend is indeed struggling about the everyday things in life. People who are not close , see a sudden change and will look strange or start gossipping but she has to stand above this all and enjoy the True Core of this game ,namely playing , dreaming away , go with the flow of coincidense that this game so perfectly provides and most Pirates , including me ,don't care if we play with a girl in a guy Pirate … Let her know that , for this moment , she just has to make the best of it , and i'm confident that ,in time , Rare may be import the chance to alter a character , as many Pirates feel they would like a second chance , for whatever reason...
i'm a guy ( * haha , you're an Old sock, George , you utter moron), but if i play Tomb Raider ,i play with a girl Lara Croft ...So , this doesn't change my thinking, it is what it is and i just play...
Tell your Friend that she has a place under God's Sun, just like you , me and everybody else . A Pirate Character doesn't define a person...A Heart and Mind does , but not a graphical depiction...
i know ,like said before , it takes huge mental steps in this progress but for me and many others it simply doesn't matter who we play with or what kind of graphical choice this person has made to represent her or him… We play with a person, man female or new gender , i don't care , as long as persons come to the Sea to forget real life and enjoy themselves during the hours they grant themselves an ascape from the real world...
Your Friend needs to see that this game is a place where she can go ,just to have fun and no one will point a finger , she doesn't have to tell us her life story before she may join any of us on the waves and the character ...Well, it's just a character … And very many have chosen too hastly… i think that in time a reroll may still happen...Rare hasn't confirmed it officially but haven't denied it officially either...
She doesn't have to give up courage and i hope that she sees this game as a place where she can set aside all wordly problems or other nasty thoughts or comments aside … We are Brothers and Sisters of the Coast , we fight , we goof , we just have fun and we forget about the world that tries to floor us in the first round!