@personalc0ffee I know what you mean, it's not the issue itself, it's the attitude of the individual, the way they dealt with the issue and how that resonated with you and your prior experiences. To call any specific thing a "trigger" issue is a gross simplification of the psychological processes involved, it's really all about context.
Still though, the point I was trying to make was that I don't believe that I would have handled that situation as well as you did.