@wolfmanbush We got SoT as part of a XBox package. I am always looking for games I can play with family and friends. We were to invested in Ark SE when we got it, so it sat neglected for awhile. I'd go in and play the tutorial every so often to not forget about it. I'm afraid if I don't take a deep dive soon, I'll never get to it. First I want to explore and get a taste of everything, then set some higher goals. The biggest obstacle is going to be time.
What I enjoy so far? SoT is a very pretty looking game with great environmental effects and a bright pallet. There seem to be lots of things to explore, and ship handling feels pretty good. I'm optimistic about what comes next.
Plans are a little open ended. I intend to avoid the deep end for awhile, or try to join a more experienced crew and just generally get better. I expect to get destroyed in pvp for quite awhile before I'm any good. I'd like to get a guild going and gradually lure family and friends in over time. This will affect how entrenched I eventually get here.
My wife influences my game choices since we try to play the same things together. She likes pvp less than pve. We both prefer our pvp as battle royale or teams, otherwise we usually opt for pve. The key with that is clarity. For example, PUBG is clear about things, and if it isn't you or a squadmate you burn it down. With Ark SE you had a foggy situation where players might be either friendly or hostile, but worse are the ones who join you and backstab your clan destroying months of work, and all trust.
Pvp by appointment is something I like. It's clean and generally honorable. That doesn't mean I will complain if I get ambushed on High Seas, I just prefer the aesthetic of a duel when dealing with other human beings. If something seems cruel, like stalking noobs, I won't be doing that, otherwise if I end up on your crew, I'd try to be useful.
Long term I'm going to try to learn the game this year so casual at first. In the second year I'd like to be in with a good group and have it be a regular thing. Probably after a few years it be like how I am with Star Trek Online where I'm on for about 2 months in a year. Been doing that a long time.
That's where I'm at today. ✌️😁