I've read through a lot of the comments and will only say this once.
Sea of Thieves is supposed to let you "live the pirate life you've always dreamed about."
Sea of Thieves is also geared to "offer something for everyone, no matter how they like to play."
So, that having been said, let me explain this.
1: I will NOT pay for SoT EVER as long as they cannot make good on the promises listed above. (On the Xbox store page mind you). So that is money that Rare isn't getting out of me, not just for SoT, but for all their games because if they can't keep a promise for SoT, why should I believe them about anything else.
2: I understand that this is a pirate's life game. But here is something people don't seem to realize. Pirates had honor, they had respect, and they had dignity. 98% of the time, a pirate would take the treasure and leave, killing ONLY those they had to and leaving the ship in one piece so the people could continue on. The [Mod Edit] that pvp, they're NOTHING like this. I speak from experience as I just got trolled by 4 on a galleon. They didn't care that I was willing to give them the treasure, they didn't even care about sinking my ship. All they cared about was boarding me, killing me, and doing it over and over till I had no choice but to scuttle my sloop so I could continue alone.
3: Rules/Code of Conduct (something EVERYONE seems to miss:
At the door to leave EVERY TAVERN is a sign, it reads:
"THE PIRATE CODE
ARTICLE 1: The Sea Calls to Us All
ARTICLE 2: The Sea Unites Us as One Community
ARTICLE 3: Disputes Are Settled upon the Waves
ARTICLE 4: All Crewmates Are Equal
ARTICLE 5: The Crew Bond is Sacred
ARTICLE 6: Respect New Pirates and Their Voyage Ahead
ARTICLE 7: Those Who Cheat Shall Be Punished"
To this, you say "Aye, I agree to the code!"
Now, I have NEVER been respected by another player or ship. And I've been playing since launch.
I have also been repeatedly sank by people who find it funny to attack me. One such instance is where I even gave them the chest, and afterwards, they decided to sink me, laughing about it.
Because of [Mod Edit] like this, I seldom ever play the game anymore, preferring to play in the dead of night when little to no one is online or turning to Sid Meier, because at least with him I can play the way I want to play.
Fact of the matter is that yes, pvp is part of the game, but it's the trolls who will kill the game. It's the trolls who are why people keep screaming for a private server. And it's the trolls that keep people like me from enjoying the game and buying it or other online games. So yes, if Rare and the SoT community doesn't do something about it, people like me will simply move on to other games that give us what we want and it will die anyway.
Am I against pvp? No! The game is a pirate game.
Do I want private servers or at least some measure taken so I can enjoy the game? Yes!
Unfortunately, there is no way to determine who is a troll, so ultimately, the only safe solution is to offer people a private server or some way to only do PVE because of the [Mod Edit] who find it funny to stand on the deck of your ship and repeatedly kill you as you spawn in.