I'm gonna "pull a Bacon" (ba-dum-tsss) here: wait for a fix or get a refund and wait for the next sale, as it should def be fixed by then.
And if I were to tell you something in my own fashion, that would be:
Is this your first live-service game (or just any game) ever purchased on any platform? Cuz you can't seriously be expecting any issue to be fixed that fast, especially with large scope multiplayer games such as SoT, basically on a "release" (PS release in this case).
What's even worse, is that in this case you have communication between 3 parties - MS, Playstation, AND SoT servers. Simply because of that fact you should be more reasonable when it's about connection issues. Patience is a virtue. Otherwise, Playstation Store/support is the place to be for a refund.
Also, what do you expect to hear from moderators or even devs? Fixed date and time ETA for a fix? That's not how it works in anything software related, which reinforces the idea you're either super young or inexperienced on the matter.
EDIT: And yes, they're aware of it. And yes, they're actively working on fixing it.