The name of the topic says it all.
In all the advertisement materials, developer interviews and other sources of media everyone tries to assure you that the game is all about having fun, doing voyages, exploring the content, that this game sure has plenty of. Fighting other players isn't even shown that much in trailers and ad's, compared to PvE content footage.
But the reality you face when you hop in, is that its a crude sweatlord world where everyone else's goal is to ruin your experience just for the sake of feeling dominant (not even for the sake of getting your loot), as if this is some sort of battle royale game. Except its not being advertised as one. And the facade that the developers and marketers of the game try to maintain is misleadingly avoiding this sweaty "git gud or suffer" concept of the game, that many other games have and admit nowadays.
Except when you try to discover the game content, have some fun across the beautiful world of the game, your experience gets inevitably ruined by some toxic crew that chases you down not even to rob you, but to just kill you over and over again before finally sinking your ship after 15 minutes of spawncamping on your ship, which has neither emissary flag nor loot because you just logged on to fish or something. Or anything else. And the only answers you get is "get better", "sail better", "this is a game about pirates", "delete the game" from players, and same ideas but phrased more official from devs and moderators.
One might make a mistake thinking that its just the toxic community turning this game into solely ship combat with racial slurs, while the devs intended people to do both PvE content and PvP. After all, we have many examples of games ruined by attracting toxic sweaty communities, and there isn't much the devs can do about it.
Well, this ain't no such case. The devs clearly like this state of the game, and intend it to be like that, judging by their actions and responses to frustrated players. They removed the arena mode, which took away at least a small portion of these PvP sweat lords and streamers. They added a faction, who get emissary flag leveled up literally by killing and sinking people, not just stealing somebody else's loot. And once again, the way they respond to those who are frustrated by what this game actually turns out to be says everything.
People who just want to have some fun, hop on for a couple of voyages for 1-2 hours, without dedicating their life to mastering blunderbuss shooting skills and bunny hopping while juggling fire bombs, arent welcome here. Those, who do sessions of 5+ hours consisting solely of sinking and killing even those who have no emissary flag and just started their session are welcome here. They rule this realm and developers are so proud of them, they advise everyone to be like them.
And there's no changing that, I understand. Clearly this is the way it was, is and will be. But stop your false hypocritical advertisement then, because it is annoying. When you watch ad materials of Escape from Tarkov you know that its hard and you gonna die a lot. When you watch ad materials for any moba game or battle royale you know its going to be very competetive and sweaty, and that you have to "git gud" to enjoy it. And so on. You know these facts and you either accept the challenge and play the game, or you just ignore it because its not what you like in games. Stop trying to make people who havent bought the game yet think its not a sweaty game where everyone is trying to kill you like in battle royales and looter shooters.
It is what you are telling people to expect on forums after they already bought the game and find out that the game is actually like that. Be fair than and stop maintaining the facade that clearly doesnt match your vision for the game and community's majority intentions.
Writing this post after getting my solo sloop without emissary flag and only a bait crate on board with the intent of fishing ruined by a reaper brig just for the amusement after 15 minutes of being spawncamping massacre. And having to sink the ship and switch seas for 11 times to find one without reapers.
