@talia-sendua said in I would love to have an option to disable pet-in-cannon features on my captained ship...:
Oh, my mother really tried. But kids can be really persistent and persuasive and quite creative in thieving. At least I was. My mom saw once a scene from the game (nothing extreme, just an empty bus exploding I was driving) and demanded I hand her the disk. I gave it to her with the casing, later when she was asleep, I sneaked into her room, took the CD from the casing but left the casing. Even later, after she discovered, I just bought the game digital to prevent her from taking it from me again.
On the other hand my father, making me watch as a child stuff like the movie "300" so I understand the historical meaning of the 300 Spartans (he was greek).
Or something totally uninfluenced from their actions, the rare brutal scenes in Pirates of the Caribbean 1 with the skeletons stabbing all the sea soldiers of the British marine (the movie is rated USK 12 btw. in my country - the equivalent for PEGI 12).
That's just me and my history with violence. And just to be clear, no, I am not violent nor do I condone violence IRL. But said media surely left a mark on what level of brutality I can endure or enjoy (I love blood and gore for example like in Warhammer Vermintide 2 and such). And I bet that wouldn't be the case if some of the more extreme media I consumed in early childhood/teenager wouldn't have been that brutal and filled with violent content.
That's where it's on guardians to observe and communicate. Make changes where necessary, communicate openly why changes are made, communication is important at all stages of life, not just punishment/removing access and calling something bad or wrong. Kids learn from conversation just like adults do.
I grew up a bit wild, a lot of what I say didn't exist in the environment I was developing in, it's something I worked on years later. What you are saying can be accurate for others and it's certainly accurate for you as you lived it but it's not the content itself it's the environment the content was consumed in.
We all handle things very different, uniquely. It's understandable that it's something you are passionate about.