@valor-omega
Who is talking about surrendering? Who is stating they deserve to get it? You can claim it as your own by cashing it in, at that point you take it out of play as well, but at that point it is yours. If they get it, you have all the rights to come back and try to take it back until someone sold it. That is the whole point... why should you be allowed to remove it from play?
May I point out the alternatives that are all good sportsmanship:
- Flee and drive by sell all the loot, result they get nothing.
- Flee and use a rowboat to sneak away with the loot, result they get nothing.
- Stop them from chasing you by boarding and good naval position, result they get nothing and you have the time to sell.
- Fight them and sink them, they lost and gain nothing.
- Sink them by using kegs, land cannons, they once again lost and gain nothing.
- Use another ship as a distraction, you can steal another person ship and fight with that.
- Get another ship to help you defend against them, the nicer approach to the above where you gain even the pirate crew to help you out.
- Negotiate a treaty, usually the hardest thing to do.
Nowhere am I stating that one should just lay down their arms and anchor the ship and hand it over. I am stating that the intentions behind your actions should not be solely about inflicting a negative emotion on others, so you can gloat over the fact you denied others the ability to have a good time.
You talk about being kind to each other... if you are going out of your way to inflict as much damage you can to the other party even at the cost of your own ship and any opportunity of cashing in yourself? Are you being kind or a good sport? Who is being the hypocrite here?