@xrekkoffx I understand where your frustrations come from. I have never been a pvp fan when it comes to any game. I've never excelled at it, as I don't have excessive amounts of free time to "git gud" as people often say after a pve exclusive suggestion.
However, I am a fan of the pirating! Sailing, treasure hunting, swordfights...I love it all!
I used to also get so frustrated by pvp-ers ruining my pirate experience. But then I had an ah-ha moment. It happened when I completed my 20 chest achievement. I was so thrilled. Like, overly happy about it...more so than I should have been. I called my father and fiance (both play the game) to brag. I was just so proud.
And then the ah-ha came. I was proud because I had done it. I had achieved this thing that was difficult because of Rare's immersive game experience that includes pvp. Without the pvp aspect, there would have been nothing to feel proud of.
And so, I started to embrace the pvp experience. Instead of irritation at being attacked, or sunk even, i look at it as a chance to start another story. Have I lost loot? Oh my word, yes. More than I can say. But I've gained so much as well....
The thrill and excitement of never knowing what each session will bring
The joy of evading that persistent sloop
The accomplishment of fending off the server hoppers from the fort (you know who you are!)
And so much more. The immersive nature of the game allows for pvp. But it allows for unique experiences and adventures too. And that has been Rare's intent. To create a game where everyone's experience is genuinely special.
Try to embrace the experience!
If it still doesn't work for you, I understand. But, this game has been billed as a pvp inclusive game from its conception. I still don't care for pvp games. Which is why PUBG will never be on my shopping list. But, if I did get it, I wouldn't then ask for a non-pvp way of playing. I know what I'm getting.
I love the pvp aspect of this game. And the more I play it, the more I love it! If you keep at it, the things you gain from it will far outweigh the loot you lose!
Happy sailing!