@omgitsnegan said in [Mega Thread] PvP and PvE Playstyle Discussion:
@cotu42 said in [Mega Thread] PvP and PvE Playstyle Discussion:
Why is this reliant on the recently played players or any external approach?
Because short of turning my ship around and fighting them while trying to give pointers, there's no real way easy to communicate?
You are on their ship, killing them... all I hear here are excuses. You were dominating them no? You could have talked while fighting them.
Why would this be based on their actions of requesting information instead of you offering it?
Like I said, I had no way to talk to them peacefully, like via Xbox messaging, and every other moment we spent near each other they were really super trying to kill me. Makes for a difficult classroom. Lol
Your point is - external programs are not peaceful or offensive just other channels. Just speak within the game, I do it all the time; so once again that is your choice. The game itself offers the tools, you just choose not to use them.
Where do your actions during that time frame reflect any empathy for their position?
They went hostile first. Once you fire the first shot, it's empathy off, as you've (the player, not you per se) told me you want to fight and/or kill me.
Oooh so you are brutal, no empathy, no mercy, no forgiving! That is my point, you call out others while it is you that shows no empathy or mercy. Weren't you telling us how you empathized for their position?
Do you not claim to be a pirate that has empathy for others, that shows mercy to new players. Their white knight that comes in here to protect those that struggle with PvP while being fully capable themselves, to then turn around within the game world to slaughter them all!
In self defense. Lol. I'm not handing anyone my loot.
Who states you have to hand out loot, aren't you a capable pirate that can negotiate while keeping themselves safe? You claim to be at our level of skill, that you know how to navigate the seas... out sailing a bunch of new players shouldn't be that tall of an order.
Imagine people complain about people that PvP if their white knight comes here with their cutlass dripping with their blood and goes... I think they have a point and laughs in their face while offering no mercy, they came for the chest and so they had to die!
I feel bad for homeless people, but if one tried to rob me he's getting shot. Same logic.
What... that makes no sense at all. Homeless people aren't by definition criminals and pirates in this game are not some misfortunate individuals. This analogy is so wrong for so many reasons.
If you do not expect in Sea of Thieves that shots will be fired and use that as an excuse to not show any mercy or empathy to others, you cannot claim that you are in here for their interests or care about them; your choices are to show no mercy or empathy.
This is not based on their actions, you do not control their actions and I am not stating to recklessly anchor your ship. I am stating to offer out a hand, because by the sounds of it you didn't reach out at all and you were also killing them, but they shouldn't try to kill you right.
Combat, Stealing, Sneaking are all part of the game and is what we all accept. These actions are acceptable within the society of pirates in the Sea of Thieves. These are not criminal acts, that is just how disputes are settled within this world.
I am calling out the hypocrisy of your words here not reflecting in the choices you made within the game - while judging others and claiming they do not care or have empathy. You choose not to take a single bit of effort to try and show mercy or empathy for their situation. You can claim it afterwards, I felt so bad doing it... while laughing, but you choose to do it; You embodied the PvP player you claim to judge. No quarters given, no mercy and no peace offerings.
If they had broken persuit, and left to do anything that wasn't attacking me I'd have left them alone. There's a clear difference between self defense and mindless attacking anything that moves.
This is not showing mercy or empathy, this is once again telling us that they are the ones in control or your reactions? We are talking about your actions here not what other people should do. Them breaking of pursuit is them admitting defeat, not you showing them mercy or empathy.
The actions that go along with mercy, empathy and such are not the ones you showcased here. The question is how are you responding to the situation, not how the others are and this is a mistake many people make here; influence what you can, make the choices that reflect you and be the one in control.
Empathy is lost on others? While you choose to brutally slaughter a new crew of pirates for nearly an hour, which by your own accord was so one sided that it made you laugh about how you as a single pirate were mopping the floor with them. Yet now you claim that you had zero opportunity during that entire time the chance to offer an olive branch, show some mercy and empathy or any tips or guidance? You actions speak louder than your words here.
The reason I found them the second time was when I did go looking for them after cashing in my loot, but they had the next reaper chest when I found them, and they fired first. Thus, no attempt could be made at peace, and so I decided to teach the hard lesson of not shooting first unless you plan to win.
Important lesson I think.
Of course they fired! You were in a battle before, you slaughtered them! Why would they assume you are friendly? They now were the ones with loot and you were the one trying to steal from them. By your previous statements their only choice is to fire! Why do they now have to risk their treasure, while you are coming to steal from them for all they know?
An attempt can be made, you just didn't try! This just showcases more and more that even when you have nothing to lose, you don't even attempt to show empathy, mercy or try to educate new players. You simply crush them, because how dare they do the logical thing and shoot at the person that just before then was killing them.
You try to lay blame on the other party, their actions and state that you have no say in the matter. Yet how you respond is totally in your control! Your actions are the ones that are in question here, not those of the other crew.
My example of what I do, is during battle and it is within the game world. You don't need a recent player record or a personal message or an after fight breakdown session, you can talk to them within the game at that moment; even the speaking horn has pre-made selections that can be used to express a peace offering. You claim to be the one in control of the situation, yet you did nothing to show mercy or empathy.
I really gotta emphasize the fact it was self defense, but yeah, I didn't think of the wheel of quick messages.
Fair enough
A battle is a battle, the second time around you were the initiator... you sailed to them. So, your excuse of self defense is not valid there for instance; you already sold everything.
You can give them advise while fighting them even, like:
- You should really guard your ladders, I keep boarding you.
- Why are you trying to snipe me with a blunderbuss, it is only effective at close range.
- You might want to bucket soon, as you are taking on a lot of water!
- You might want to spawn in with your crew, because you guys keep losing the 1 on 1... work as a team!
- You might want to try and block sometimes!
Mostly I do this when I can, so I agree with this
Well you claim they didn't understand how you got on board, so I doubt you told them.
You only have control over your own actions, those actions define what type of pirate you really are... and you are not showcasing that you are a pirate that has empathy, quite the contrary; you fall more within the brutal type. Regardless of what you type here, your actions within the game are not that of one that considers others. Nothing wrong with that, as I am no saint either... but when I notice people are as new as you claimed you noticed they were, I do reach out with a peace offering; Not that it is always accepted, salty pirates and all. I even admit that at times I am the 'bad' guy, while I always try to leave an opportunity for those willing to strike a deal and offer it myself.
I concur, and have the same mentality. But if I'm attacked first, and the messages don't get them to stop, then they're always going to the locker before I am.
This I understand, because let me straight; there is no problem that you slaughtered them and did it in silence even. Like that is a valid choice and up to you. Just like that I roll up to others and based on the situation will simply open fire myself or try to reach out in a friendly gesture.
One does not have the ability to determine what others will do, but they do have control over the actions and choices they make. You are the one responsible for the actions you choose to do, your choice was to show no mercy and to beat them down till they gave up or sank. Yet claim now to be in favor of protecting them, while that protection does not address the core issue they were experiencing; their lack of knowledge on how to deal with PvP.
Thanks dad, I never knew I was in control. I always thought it was the invisible boy in my finger. 🙄.
Like I said, they didn't relent. So they died. Twice. Maybe next time I won't go back to try and be helpful. I dunno.
Did you talk to them though, nobody trusts a silent pirate! They also should not trust a silent pirate, as there is no way to know their intent!
@COMBATxKITTY I judge people based on what they show me. It's not always right, but has been pointed out by by bff here, I'm not a prophet and cannot devine things I'm not shown.
Thank you for sharing, and I won't make that assumption about you in the future.
It is funny, because your story that you show is the embodiment of what you claim to judge.
I can see how you'd think that. But it wasn't my intention. Just the result of things. 🤷🏼♂️
Yes, but that is our point! Based on the choices we make, how the other responds and how things act out the result can be that of a PvP battle where people lose. You take these type of stories and place your judgement! While you are here showcasing that you yourself do the exact same thing, you filthy PvPer XD
You are showcasing exactly the issue with those that ask for PVE calling out PVP players. Just because they lost in battle is just the result of the choices of the people involved. If you want to change the result, then you have to change your behavior. You only control one side of the coin, but the whole victimhood is just people unwilling to adapt and learn. Providing an environment where they do not encounter things, does not teach them. No lessons are learned.
There is nothing wrong in losing at times, having other people steal from you. Being in a situation where you lost your loot, your ship was sunk while you were on the island, where you got boarded and killed. Let me take your own words:
so I decided to teach the hard lesson of not shooting first unless you plan to win.
Important lesson I think.
All these things are important lessons, the question is whether people are willing to learn. Those that PvE also have important lessons to learn like; Watch the horizon, Be prepared, Speak, Sail, Be quick on the island!
Become a capable pirate, learn how you want to respond and the results might shift in your favor. Just like they did for you!
Let me point out though that it is in your pirating style that if someone shoots first they have to prepare for battle till the bitter end. In my style they have a chance to resolve it peacefully even after shots are fired.