@knifelife said in [suggestion] Gifting Pirate Emporium stuff:
@bumbumbac Bammm and instantly just an average kind gesture towards someone gets spun on its head to make someone look like a monster.
Impeccable taste sir 👌 You truly are a beacon of hope.. 😂
Let me have you understand something...
There is a difference between a gift and an exchange
- a gift - you give and expect nothing back
- an exchange - you give and expect something in return
So if you give a gift you got no expectations and whatever the consequent actions of the other person may be it does not matter to you.
But if you are an emotionally immature needy person who disguises exchanges as gifts while expecting a positive response from others by flooding them with seeming acts of kindness you are bound to get heartbroken eventually 'cause others are gonna sense something's off and you just ain't genuine. They are going to sense you do not really care about them but that you're only using them to satisfy your own needs.
So back to the original point, if it really was a gift you wouldn't ever feel heartbroken had the gifted person blocked/muted/reported you.